I was talking to my Auntie Mom this week, she’s moved to Ottawa and it’s very far away than just Burnaby so now we have conversations on the phone that last for hours. We talk about books, mostly. It might seem strange to talk to another person about books for hours, but that’s what we do. We also talk about family and there’s a person in our family who’s become someone absolutely unrecognizable due probably to their choice in partner. It has struck me in this undoing that one must be very careful who they love, because it can change anything.